Now that there is a break in Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour, it feels like her relationship with Travis Kelce has risen a notch. The dynamic duo was spotted in New York City taking in everything from a slice of pizza to the U.S. Open. Their level of fame is so bright that having moments of privacy have become increasingly important as they figure out the next steps in their romance — that’s why the 34-year-old singer has reportedly created new rules for Kelce.

“Travis loves to show Taylor off,” a Life & Style source revealed. “She appreciates it but she’s cautioning him from revealing too much about their private lives.” The couple hit the one-year mark which is notable because they are “very happy to prove the doubters wrong.” Still, they need to set up boundaries, so their love isn’t constantly in the headlines.

They recently navigated a fake contract scandal that outlined their breakup plans — sorry, haters, Swift and Kelce’s relationship is real. Full Scope Public Relations, the Kansas City Chiefs athletes’ PR rep told USA Today that the claims are “entirely false.” The statement read, “These documents are entirely false and fabricated and were not created, issued, or authorized by this agency.” Swift and Kelce have reached that A-list power couple status where weird rumors start to gain fuel on social media.

There’s also Swift’s terrifying brush with terrorism at her canceled concerts in Vienna, Austria in August. Describing the experience as “devastating” on Instagram on Aug. 21, the “Lavender Haze” singer wrote, “The reason for the cancellations filled me with a new sense of fear, and a tremendous amount of guilt because so many people had planned on coming to those shows. But I was also so grateful to the authorities because thanks to them, we were grieving concerts and not lives.”

So, it’s understandable that she’s asking her boyfriend to be “a little more discreet” as they move into the second year of their relationship. “He wears his heart on his sleeve and says what’s on his mind,” the Life & Style source added while noting that he often reveals little Swift secrets on his New Heights podcast. Still, Kelce understands what it takes to date a superstar and both of them are “100 percent committed to making this relationship work.” Teamwork makes the dream work!