Coach Who Cut Michael Jordan in Youth League Apologizes Years Later, MJ’s Reaction Is Unforgettable
It was a cold, crisp autumn day in Wilmington, North Carolina, when Michael Jordan found himself sitting in a quiet restaurant, sipping coffee. He had just wrapped up another busy day filled with meetings and media appearances, but something had been on his mind all day—a letter that had arrived that morning. The letter was postmarked from his hometown, and the handwriting on the envelope was unmistakable.
As he opened the letter, memories of his youth came rushing back. It was from his high school basketball coach, Coach Smith, the very man who had cut him from the basketball team in his sophomore year. Michael had always remembered that day, the sting of rejection still fresh in his memory. It had been one of the defining moments of his life, the day that pushed him to work harder, to prove to everyone—including himself—that he belonged.
The letter was brief, but its words hit Michael deeply: “Michael, I hope this letter finds you well. I want to take a moment to apologize for my actions many years ago. When I cut you from the team, I made a mistake. I didn’t see the greatness in you that others saw, and for that, I am truly sorry. You went on to accomplish things that none of us could have predicted. I was wrong to overlook your potential, and I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me. I am proud of everything you’ve achieved and the man you’ve become. Sincerely, Coach Smith.”
As he read the letter, Michael felt a mix of emotions. He had long since forgiven Coach Smith in his heart, realizing that the rejection had ultimately fueled his relentless drive to succeed. But to hear the apology, years after the fact, struck him in a way he hadn’t expected.
Michael thought back to that moment when he had been cut from the team. At the time, it had crushed him. He had poured everything into basketball, believing that making the team would be the validation he so desperately sought. Instead, it felt like a public failure, a moment that sent him into a downward spiral. But looking back now, he saw that it had been the spark he needed to push beyond limits he hadn’t even known existed. That moment of rejection was what had ignited his fierce determination, his desire to prove everyone wrong, and to become the legend he was today.
But there was something about Coach Smith’s apology that made Michael pause. It wasn’t just the words—it was the courage it took for Coach Smith to reach out all these years later, to admit his mistake and ask for forgiveness. It spoke to the coach’s character, to the kind of man he had become.
Michael knew he needed to respond.
He picked up the phone and dialed the number that he had never forgotten. It rang a few times before a voice answered, one he hadn’t heard in decades.
“Hello?”
“Coach Smith?” Michael said, his voice calm but filled with emotion. “It’s Michael Jordan.”
The silence on the other end of the line lasted only a beat before Coach Smith’s voice cracked, “Michael? I can’t believe it. I… I didn’t expect you to call.”
“I got your letter,” Michael said, his voice steady. “And I just wanted to say, it’s okay. I’ve forgiven you a long time ago. What you did back then was just one moment in time, and it helped shape who I am today. It was a turning point for me, the thing that pushed me to work harder than ever. I don’t hold any grudges.”
There was a long pause, and then Coach Smith’s voice trembled. “You have no idea how much that means to me, Michael. I’ve thought about that day so many times. I always wondered if you hated me for what I did.”
Michael shook his head, even though Coach Smith couldn’t see him. “No, Coach. I never hated you. I knew it was just one moment, one decision. But it made me want to prove something. It pushed me to keep going. You didn’t see what I could become, but that’s okay. You made a mistake, but so did I. I wasn’t the player I am now back then.”
The weight in Coach Smith’s voice seemed to lift, replaced with gratitude. “You’re right, Michael. I didn’t see it then, but I see it now. And I’m proud of you. I’ll always be proud of you.”
“I just wanted to say thank you, Coach,” Michael continued. “For helping me become the person I am. Even if you didn’t know it at the time, you played a big role in my journey. And I’m thankful for that.”
The conversation ended with a sense of closure. Michael hung up the phone feeling lighter, as if a chapter in his life had come full circle. It wasn’t just the victory on the basketball court that mattered—it was the lessons learned, the growth, and the ability to forgive and move forward.
In the years that followed, Michael and Coach Smith stayed in touch, sharing occasional updates and memories. But more than that, their conversation had reaffirmed an important truth for Michael: sometimes, the most significant victories aren’t the ones on the court, but the ones that happen in the heart.
Coach Smith’s apology had come decades late, but it had been worth the wait. And for Michael, the most unforgettable part wasn’t the rejection itself—it was the fact that it had been the catalyst for everything he had achieved, and the moment he realized that true strength comes not just from proving others wrong, but from embracing the lessons along the way.
And in that moment, Michael Jordan knew he had truly won.