A Reporter Asked Stephen Curry About His Biggest Regret — His Answer Changed the Entire Interview
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It began as an ordinary postgame press conference. The Warriors had just delighted the Chase Center crowd with a 114-102 victory. Sweat still glistened on Stephen Curry’s brow as he settled behind the microphone. His stat line—42 points, eight assists, six three-pointers—sparkled on the arena’s scoreboard and in every headline. As usual, reporters crowded around, notebooks open, recorders ready. Robert Kim, the team’s press liaison, raised his hand. “Fifteen minutes, everyone,” he said. “Let’s begin.”
The first questions, as predictable as a buzzer-beater, were purely technical. Carlos Mendes of The Athletic asked about Curry’s hot hand in the third quarter—three deep threes in as many minutes—and Steph replied with a grin, “Just felt in rhythm. Sometimes the hoop looks like a giant magnet.” Anthony Jang from ESPN followed up, “Did your chemistry with Draymond and Klay spark that flow, or was it pure instinct?” Steph leaned forward. “A bit of both. We’ve practiced those sets all season, but tonight, it felt telepathic.”
Silence settled for mere seconds before James Wilson of NBA.com reminded everyone of Steph’s latest milestone—most consecutive games making a three-pointer. “Do those records still matter?” he asked. Curry shrugged. “Records are cool, but wins mean more. Individual marks follow when the team wins.” Questions continued about rotation, defensive adjustments, recovery from a sprained ankle—routine fare. Sarah Mitchell of ESPN asked about playoff readiness. Daniel Patel of the Chronicle probed lineup shifts. Matthew Brown of the Mercury News inquired about conditioning. Curry answered each with practiced calm.
Fifteen years of press conferences had conditioned these journalists—and their subject—to expect nothing but basketball. Yet when Jennifer Walsh raised her hand, the room changed. Walsh, a veteran reporter whose incisive queries had made legends squirm, sat poised. Her body language signaled something weightier than X’s and O’s. “Steph,” she said, voice steady, “may I ask a more personal question?” The click of cameras seemed to hush the hushed murmurs. Curry studied her curiously. “Sure,” he said, offering that trademark smile.
Jennifer inhaled. “What is your biggest regret in life?” Her words rippled across the room. Silence fell, deeper than any before. The hum of lenses became deafening. Reporters stiffened, eyes wide. The casual postgame ambiance evaporated. It was as though someone had pressed pause on the entire world.
Steph Curry stared at the carpet. His smile vanished. Cameras captured his slight tremble and downturned gaze. For others, ten minutes of routine questions had seemed interminable; for him, those few seconds were an eternity. Finally, he exhaled. “My biggest regret?” He paused. “Not spending more time with my grandfather before he died.”
Instantly, the press room transformed into a sanctuary of raw emotion. Journalists lowered their pens. Robert Kim, trained to steer conversations, froze. Sarah Mitchell blinked back tears. Daniel Patel clenched his jaw. None dared break the hush. Curry cleared his throat. “He passed away during the 2021 playoffs, April of that year. I was obsessed with basketball—every morning, every night, every breath was about winning. My mom called me weekly: ‘Steph, Grandpa keeps asking when you’re coming home.’ And every week I said, ‘After the playoffs, Mom. After the season.’”
He looked up, voice hitching. “His name was David Clark. He lived in Charlotte. He’d watch every game, call to dissect plays. Three years earlier, my grandmother died. Grandpa would talk about her with such pride, and then he’d ask me to come listen to family stories, the kinds you only get when you sit beside someone who’s lived almost nine decades. I always told him, ‘After this season, I promise.’”
Steph’s fingers intertwined on the table. “I was leaving practice early one Tuesday to make rehab. He called me that night. We talked about one play. He said, ‘Steph, come visit when it’s over. I have stories to tell you.’ And I said, ‘Sure, Grandpa. Right after the playoffs.’ Two days later, he died in his sleep. No warning, no chance to say goodbye.”
Tears brimmed in Steph’s eyes. The hush deepened, turning sacred. “I went to his funeral and realized everyone else knew stories about him—how he met Grandma, raised six kids, served in the army, built a local business. I was the grandson he loved most, yet I knew the least. I never heard those stories.”
In that silent room, the weight of his confession was almost too much to bear. Then Marcus Williams of ESPN—a seasoned reporter who had lost his father the previous year—cleared his throat. His voice trembled: “Steph, thank you for sharing. I lost my dad last year, and I know exactly how you feel.” The admission shattered the final barrier. Journalistic protocol dissolved. Sarah Mitchell wiped her cheek. “I have an eight-year-old daughter,” she said softly. “After hearing this, I realize I’m making the same mistake you made. Always away for games, deadlines… I need to be there for her.”
Others followed. Daniel Patel asked, “How do you cope with that regret?” Curry nodded, swallowing. “Some days are tough, but I’ve changed my priorities. Now, when my kids call, I drop everything. No more ‘after.’ Time doesn’t wait.” He glanced around at the silenced faces—reporters no longer scribbling stats but reflecting on their own lives. “If my sharing spares one person even a shred of this pain, it’s worth it.”
Matthew Brown, known for his analytical mind, whispered, “In 15 years of covering sports, I’ve never witnessed anything like this. It’s not about X’s and O’s; it’s about life.” Robert Kim finally spoke: “We normally cap these at twenty minutes, but no one’s rushing out.” Curry stood, surprising everyone. He leveled his gaze at each person. “You always ask about records and titles, but today I learned the most important question is: Are you spending time on what really matters?”
The room felt suspended. He continued: “Before, my answer would’ve been, ‘Of course, I’m prioritizing family.’ But now I know that real legacy isn’t built on the court. It’s built in living rooms, backyards, and so many two-minute conversations we postpone.” He paused, letting the truth settle. “If you have grandparents, parents, elders in your life—call them today. Not tomorrow. Not next week. Today.”
As he spoke, the cameras recorded more than a press conference; they documented a moment of collective awakening. Jennifer Walsh, who had asked the question that ignited it all, nodded, tears shining. “I will,” she whispered, and several reporters murmured their own commitments—to spouses, children, parents.
Finally, Steph looked toward the row of recorders. “If you write one thing about me today,” he said, “write this: I chose to be vulnerable because I realized my pain could help others avoid the same mistake. That’s more important than any three-pointer or championship ring.” With that, he turned and left the stage.
The press room remained still long after the door closed. Then pens scratched, cameras rolled again, but nothing would ever be ordinary. In the hours and days that followed, Steph Curry’s interview went viral—not because of his points or assists, but because he had redefined success. Jennifer Walsh called her mother that night for the first time in years. Sarah Mitchell rearranged her schedule to spend the weekend with her daughter. Marcus Williams visited his father’s grave and listened to stories from relatives.
The transformation was complete: a basketball press conference had become a chamber of human truths. Reporters who came for stats left with a deeper awareness of life’s fragility. Fans who watched the clips did more than share highlights—they shared regrets, hopes, and a resolve to cherish the present.
In the end, what happened at Chase Center transcended sports journalism. It proved that vulnerability can be courage, that regrets can teach, and that sometimes the most powerful play is simply pausing your life to be fully present with the people you love. And so, amid the echoes of careening basketballs and roaring crowds, one simple question—“What is your biggest regret in life?”—changed everything.